Alex Knox 1929-2024

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  • #16
    Eulogy - Alex Knox funeral - Fri. Jan 3, 2025 - read by Hans Jung

    I am very fortunate to call Alex a good friend and am honoured to read Alex's eulogy.
    The eulogy is Tara's words and perfect. If anyone listening notices mistakes, they are all mine. (- Hans Jung)

    As most of us who knew him would agree, Alex was quite the character. Absolutely full of life, overflowing with great Canadian humour, wit, and boasting that wonderful Irsih charm, he was a real force to be reckoned with.

    Alex was born in Cambridge, Ontario during the first year of the great depression. Like millions of Canadians, he always talked about how hard it was for the family making ends meet, fighting thru the weather, and just getting by. He used to tell stories of having cabbage and carrots for days on end and spending all his time playing in the neighbourhood streets getting up to no good. Those days permanently left their mark on him. It was those formative years that made him the kind of man he would become - hard working, enduring, resilient, and most of all - tough as nails.

    When the family eventually moved to Toronto, Alex attended Danforth Tech. He played many sports, making the all star football team in his first year, and bragging of being the third fastest swimmer in the entire school.- and it was a big school! He recalled first seeing boys playing chess in the cafeteria and thinking it was an odd thing to do, when one could be playing hockey outside. At graduation, Alex was given a special award for never being absent or late for his entire four years there! As a young man Alex worked odd-jobs always helping to provide for the family. He used to tell us great stories of working as an ice chipper and working at a printing press at 288 Adelaide West. He recalled quitting a few times because the permanent ink stains on his hands were such a bother, but they kept asking him to come back to work. It was during these years where he once again encountered chess thru a co-worker. It was here that his love affair with the game took hold, volunteering with the Chess Federation of Canada.

    In the early 50's Alex applied at The Hudson's Bay Company, the R.C.M.P., and the Toronto Police. He said: " I'll join the first one who gets back to me." Eventually, he joined the Toronto Police Force on April 2, 1951 - a role that suited him perfectly, and one that he would proudly fulfill for 31 years. He had so many stories from the force; of tragedy and heartbreak, of going out of his way to help so many in need; motorcycles and cruisers, turning down a sergeants promotion. Remarkably, at the end of his tenure, he was never recorded late or absent - apparently he was better at beating the clock than anyone trying to beat a red light!
    Last edited by Hans Jung; Sunday, 5th January, 2025, 05:56 PM.

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    • #17
      eulogy continued:

      In the early 80's Alex finally retired, he was retired more than forty years - not many can say that!, and he was able to pursue his love of chess full time! He co-founded the Agincourt Chess Club in 1990 and ran it with the same passion and vigour he had for policing. He was an international arbiter and international chess organizer, a lifetime member of the Chess Federation of Canada, invited to host tournaments as far away as Moscow, and was even an extra in the motion picture "Searching for Bobby Fischer".

      He played in and directed many chess tournaments and was even ranked as high as 400 points below a master rating. Although his health had limited him in recent years, you could always see him still making it out to the club every Sunday at noon. Making coffee, taking attendance, and most importantly, making a positive influence on people in our community.

      (Here Hans speaking - the I is Hans)

      " I have more than a thousand stories of Alex, today I am going to share one."

      Alex's favourite form of chess was speed chess - 5 minutes for the game per player. - none of this modern stuff with extra seconds per move - you planned your time and your game - or you lost. When Alex really got into the game his eyes would gleam, occasionally a smile would crack his face and he would hum Italian opera and tap his fingers. When he got his chance he would play the Latvian Gambit - a wild, crazy opening.

      Knowing this, when I finally qualified to play in the Canadian Championship, I told him I was going to play the Latvian Gambit. Alex looked at me sharply, pointed his finger, and said: "Bellisimo!" We went back to his apartment to celebrate, had a few beers, Alex's personal brew was as good as some of the fine German beers, and he put on opera - Luciano Pavarotti and Placido Domingo. Alex knew quite a bit of Italian and loved to say it with panache and precision.

      When I was ready to leave, Alex went to his library and pulled out four books on the Latvian Gambit, those were his treasures, and gave them to me. I said I would give them back to him when I was done. "Keep them" he replied, "I don't need them." That was Alex - if you were his friend he would give you the shirt off his back.

      Whether you encountered him at his home, on the phone, at the bank, at the chess club, getting coffee at Tims, feeding the squirrels at Wishing Well park, or maybe you'd run into him at his favorite store where he picked up his beloved cigars, you know the kind of man Alex was: Honest, charming, full of integrity, and most of all - a jokester!

      Today, as you recall your favorite thing about him, share these stories with others you know. If it can put a smile on your face, know that he would have liked that very much.

      As we put Alex to rest, know that we have all those wonderful memories to sustain us - memories that he gave us - thank you Alex!
      Last edited by Hans Jung; Sunday, 5th January, 2025, 06:23 PM.

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      • #18
        I finally tracked down that Irish Blessing that Padre Fournier shared to end Alex's funeral:

        May you forget the things that made you sad, But remember the things that made you glad.

        May you forget the friends that proved untrue, but remember those that have stuck by you.

        May you forget the troubles that passed away, but remember the blessings that come each day.

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        • #19
          When I got my first motorcycle I rode to Toronto to visit Alex. He came down to check it out. When he saw it he could have been cynical and call it Jap Crap, but no, he came over swung his leg over the seat, turned the key, kickstarted it and revved the throttle. "Kawasaki? Yes 750". He pulled in the clutch, downshifted and then when I thought he was going to take it for a spin he turned and said: "So whats her top end? 127mph. Have you been there? Oh yes. What happened? She ran out of gas awful fast "- and we both laughed.
          A few weeks later I saw him again and he said to me: "That gave me an awful itch. I think I should get me one of those three wheelers." That never happened, at least not then.

          Rand (Alex's son) shared with me the story: Alex went up to visit him a couple of years ago in the country north of Bolton. On the way back Alex stopped on the main street in Bolton, there were two lanes on both sides. Alex stopped in the right lane, put his hazards on, and, because everything was closed because of Covid, had a heck of a time finding someone to ask directions. Directions to what? Don't know but Alex was on one of his adventures and he wouldnt stop until he tracked down what he wanted. Meanwhile a good citizen phoned the cops because that car wasnt supposed to be stopped there. When Alex got back he was confronted by an OPP and got into an argument (I could just see it - big grin) Things escalated and the OPP insisted that he redo all the tests for his drivers licence - everything, including the long multi-page questions of the written exam. Alex was a mason ( a grandmaster no less) and could have had the OPP's insistence squelched - all hushed up and done away with - but he didnt. Instead he asked Rand to find him a disability scooter - one of those three wheelers. In the end he got what he wished for. He would haven ridden the sidewalks on Sheppard both sides and definitely the side street down to Wishing Well. Most people would have done 10kmph but Alex probably 30 kms or 40.

          Alex lived independently at his apartment for more than twenty five years to the end. He rarely took help. When the end came, he got up in the middle of the night to use the facilities and when he came back from the washroom he fell. Mercifully, he was knocked out.
          Alex was a helluvaman and he lived a helluvalife, just the way he wanted it. God bless you my firend, I am going to miss you. Thanks for the memories and being a true friend.

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          • #20
            Very nice tribute Hans. I remember Alex back in the 80's. We shared the same family doctor, the late Dr. Superville, who was also my next door neighbour. Alex was well liked by everyone and I am happy you were able to celebrate his life appropriately.

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            • #21
              Sorry to hear about Alex's passing.

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