Re: Girls Choosing Tournaments
Hi Vlad:
I should have prefaced my remark by saying that I believe the junior should likely make the decision, even at 6 years old. But, Harmony's parents will know best her ability to deal with this somewhat complex decision. They also will know if it is a decision beyond her - that will be too stressful to decide.
But I think the options and consequences are quite simple and clear, when all the politics of the issue are set aside. And if Harmony's parents feel that she can make a decision in her own best interest, then I do agree that " achieving the girls' title " is one of the factors, but " achieving the Open title " is also one.
You are right that she should determine which option she sees as being the most fun for her in chess. But there are times, where the striving trumps the fun, and we do things to reach a goal, even if choosing an alternate might be more fun. The satisfaction of achieving the difficult goal outweighs the satisfaction from pursuing the " fun " option. And the harder road can also be " fun ", depending on the approach brought to it.
I guess Harmony's parents will have to decide whether it is too early for her to face such questions.
Bob A
Originally posted by Vlad Drkulec
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I should have prefaced my remark by saying that I believe the junior should likely make the decision, even at 6 years old. But, Harmony's parents will know best her ability to deal with this somewhat complex decision. They also will know if it is a decision beyond her - that will be too stressful to decide.
But I think the options and consequences are quite simple and clear, when all the politics of the issue are set aside. And if Harmony's parents feel that she can make a decision in her own best interest, then I do agree that " achieving the girls' title " is one of the factors, but " achieving the Open title " is also one.
You are right that she should determine which option she sees as being the most fun for her in chess. But there are times, where the striving trumps the fun, and we do things to reach a goal, even if choosing an alternate might be more fun. The satisfaction of achieving the difficult goal outweighs the satisfaction from pursuing the " fun " option. And the harder road can also be " fun ", depending on the approach brought to it.
I guess Harmony's parents will have to decide whether it is too early for her to face such questions.
Bob A
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